Posts in Men
Tabor

Tabor Wright, 30, is proud of being clean and sober. He was born in Southwest Colorado. When his father died in 2015 however, Tabor started shooting heroin. He came out to San Diego to get away from it all and entered a sober living home. He lasted only four days there because he felt like he was being judged for being gay by the Christians who ran the place. Now, however, he is worried that when he leaves the sober living place he is at now, without an income, he may end up homeless again.

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Men, YouthPeggy Peattie
Richard

Richard has a quiet personality that works as a calm in the storm that can be daily survival for many homeless folks. Flush with cash and expensive toys in his early 20s in Minnesota, he sold it all and moved to San Diego when he found his lover in bed with another man. The cost of living in San Diego combined with an economic downturn forced him to live in his taxi, then to couch surf for nearly ten years with a friend down in Tijuana while crossing the border every day to do day labor work. He eventually moved back to San Diego where he spent 20 years living under the same tree in Balboa Park.

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Men, SeniorsPeggy Peattie
Harm Reduction Coalition

The local Harm Reduction Coalition holds street medicine outreach events despite looming rain clouds and a cold wind. They offer packages of fresh syringes, backpacks, clothing, food and Naloxene (Narcan). The Harm Reduction Coalition began operation in October 2022 following approval from the California Department of Public Health office of AIDS. According to the group’s executive director Tara Stamos-Buesig, they have also been doing syringe service outreach three days a week. San Diego County Board of Supervisors voted in favor of developing a needle exchange program, essentially repealing the ban on such programs enacted in 1997.

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Women, Veterans, Men, YouthPeggy Peattie
Turtle

Turtle, 38, grew up on the streets of San Diego with other street kids who ran away from foster care. He became streetwise and developed a talent for fashioning jewelry from copper wire and found objects. He also takes makes sure the older folks on the street are treated respectfully by other homeless and by passersby. During the pandemic lockdown, Turtle said is was like a madness out on the streets; too many drugs and no place to wash your hands or use the bathroom. When people can’t maintain a semblance of proper hygiene, he said, they start to go mad.

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MenPeggy Peattie
Red

Michael Connelly, 62, grew up in Tucson, AZ. and joined the army right out of high school. He was a field medic but realized pretty quickly he couldn’t stand the sight of blood. His original goal had been to work as an operating room technician. At the age of 18, however, the idea of knowing and organizing all those tools when someone’s life was at stake, was a bit daunting. Red came out to San Diego in 1980, worked off and on at odd jobs, got married in 1988, has four kids, then got divorced in 1998. “After the divorce I ended up out on the streets, and got into the drugs and things. I spent the next 20 years out here doing drugs and ruining my life.”

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Veterans, Men, SeniorsPeggy Peattie
Monster

Monster thought COVID-19 was a lie. Then three people in his family died from cancer and his nephew in Tecate died from respiratory failure due to complications from COVID-19 just two days after being admitted to a hospital. Other people living in the park see him as a father figure. He has a calming effect on some of the younger, more energetic locals, especially when they are high. He has trouble with joint pain as he gets older. Some days it’s hard getting up and out of the bed he fashioned in the back of his vehicle. His dream is to own a furniture shop or sell cars so he can help support this daughter and shower his grandchildren with gifts.

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Men, SeniorsPeggy Peattie
Tito

Tito is used to staying in the shadows, or with family or friends until he wears out his welcome. It’s a routine that was embedded into his lifestyle at an early age. He was born in Oregon, but his mother ended up homeless in San Diego, living in a tent on the street when he was still a baby. Once his mother found work they were able to secure housing. “Southeast raised me real hard,” he said. His goal is to get his GED and find a way to make a sustainable income. “This life is relentless,” he said. “It’s horrible to be homeless.”

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Youth, MenPeggy Peattie
Scott

Scott has an incredibly positive attitude. He is outspoken in seeking help from caregivers at St. Vincent de Paul where he has been in and out and in again over the years, and at the Transitional Storage Center operated by Think Dignity.
Asked if he was a military veteran, Scott replied “I don’t remember. But I’m going to have them look into that and see.” He then ran through a list of traumatic situations and mental health issues that combine to overwhelm his well-being. “Death in the family, separation of family, um, bipolar, schizophrenia, um, hypertension deficit disorder, um learning disorder, and just a long time of institutionalized, and so it’s just a lot. But, I haven’t given up, my friends haven’t given up on me. People haven’t given up on me, churches haven’t given up on me, and my brains ain’t beat in.” He holds up an I.D. card with a clean-shaven version of his face. “I want to get back to this guy,” he said.

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MenPeggy Peattie
Rick S.

Rick sees the glass half full rather than half empty. He loves working in cabinetry where he can use his construction skills, and work with his hands to create something beautiful. But when the army veteran learned his back might need surgery, he had to stop working, and could no longer pay rent. His marriage went south, and Rick found himself on the street. He recently found his way indoors with the PATH program, which is helping his puzzle together a way of staying indoors, while he schedules his back surgery and applies for SSI.

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Veterans, MenPeggy Peattie
Montana

Montana, 32, rode the rails and hitch-hiked his way to San Diego through snow-capped mountains in boxcars and sitting atop piles of rebar, to be near his two sons. He saw his boys nearly every day, taking them to the park to play soccer, the beach — mostly what they could do together that didn’t cost anything. Then he got stung by a bee one day, as he and the boys were on their way to the park. Dizzy, due to his bee allergy, he had the boys lead him back to their house, where he slept it off on the couch. His ex, however, was not pleased, and told him he couldn’t see the kids any more. This was a crushing blow, since the kids were his reason to be in San Diego. He has toyed with the idea of returning to Montana, taking the bus this time, or moving further north, while holding out hope he will get a reprieve and be able to hang out with his sons again.

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MenPeggy Peattie
Two Hawks

Two Hawks, 78, grew up on the reservation in Deadwood, South Dakota, the oldest of five. He spoke his native Lakota language until forced to learn English as a young teenager. At age 17 he was drafted, became a U.S. Marine trained in special forces and was sent to Vietnam where he was involved in many intense, high profile battles. He returned with two bullets still in his body, a broken spirit and having lost two of his younger brothers to the war. “War will screw you up. I still have nights where I don’t sleep,” he said. Two Hawks lost his job and his house when he started drinking to deal with the loss of his wife.

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Veterans, Seniors, MenPeggy Peattie
Xmas Eve Celebration

Once again, the family of Bob McElroy, president and CEO of the Alpha Project for the Homeless, brought Christmas cheer to the hundreds of people living in the downtown homeless tent shelter by spending Christmas Eve serving dinner to the tent residents. The very youngest members of the extended family scooped handfuls of candy onto residents’ plates and were treated to a peak at the three puppies that were born the day before to one of the tent resident’s small dog. Adult members scooped ham, potatoes and vegetables onto residents’ plates while Santa strolled around taking selfies with everyone. As always, the First Family of compassion brought the greatest gifts of all to those most in need: the gift of their time.

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Men, Seniors, WomenPeggy Peattie
Richard Garcia

Richard Garcia, 53, broke his leg 15 months ago stepping through a hole in the street. Because of that he lost his job, couldn’t pay rent on the room he was living in and ended up living in a friend’s car. A construction worker with licenses for truck and forklift driving as well as carpentry skills, he checks online with agencies throughout the week looking for openings. He often has high school students stop and ask him about homelessness, an opportunity for which he is grateful, he said. He tells them he sees young people on the street strung out on drugs who have no future, and that he lost two jobs before he realized he had to quit doing drugs himself if he wanted to amount to anything. Garcia is grateful for the smallest donation people give, whether food or money, he said. He keeps his clothes and body clean and gets his haircut at the college barber so if he gets that call to work he’s ready.

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MenPeggy Peattie
Dex and Karma

Dex grew up in Queens, New York in a big family. He attended college in Virginia, though it got tough to pay his tuition after his father stole his student loan check. The fight that ensued got Dex noticed by local police. Thus began a long relationship with law enforcement that most recently manifested in his being assaulted while in a Pensacola, Florida jail, allegedly by a policeman. He had to undergo brain surgery and several months of rehab before he could walk and talk again. Now on the streets of San Diego after a job offer to do computer animation fell through, he is looking for work either playing in a band or building websites. Meanwhile he has a good attitude on life, and Karma keeps strangers at a distance. He has spent much of his 35 years on the road, either hitchhiking or hopping trains. After the traumatic head injury, he said he feels like he’s 80. He learned to paint, and thinks he might be able to make a living painting and selling his artwork. He just needs enough money to buy art supplies first.

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MenPeggy Peattie
Marvin C.

Marvin, 54, is a glass half-full soul who grew up in a Christian home in a Baltimore neighborhood. His mother was a nurse, his father a forklift driver: “a working class family,” as he described it. When one of his aunts moved to California, he got permission to move out and live with her and his cousins, graduating high school in L.A. Following in his mother’s footsteps he earned a degree as a medical assistant and found work in a nursing home there. Somewhere along the way be god mixed up with substance abuse. He realized he has an addictive personality and it has to be all or nothing. Marvin has been in and out of programs to deal with alcohol, preferring programs that have roots in Christian messaging. He maintains his sunny disposition, despite having his toes amputated last Christmas due to diabetes. He now gets around on the street in a wheelchair. He hopes to work as a bell ringer for the holidays this year so he can earn money before moving to Long Beach and moving in to another rescue mission program.

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MenPeggy Peattie
Bruce

Bruce, 63, grew up in rural Michigan. He didn’t get along with his mother’s second husband, Jim, who treated him and his siblings like they were burdens, not children. He left home at age 13, ended up working for UNCEF, following natural disasters around the globe. In the 1960s he ran messages back and forth among noted figures like Abbie Hoffman in the anti-war movement. He also spent some time “as a commodity,” he said. In his second attempt at college, he turned out to be a wiz kid, tackling psychology and behavioral health, specifically suicide. He’d seen many people in his life: a sister, friends, ex-partners, commit suicide so it was something close to his heart. He was on the Dean’s List, doing fine, until everything fell collapsed at once. He was hospitalized for suicidal depression. He ended up on the streets. “For four years I was just lost.” Painful spinal stenosis landed him in a wheelchair. Fortunately Bruce connected with an organization that services senior homeless individuals. He was the first person moved into the new Palace Apartments, through Telecare Agewise, just this month. He advises other homeless, especially the new people on the street, to find an ally; that it’s too easy to anesthetize one’s condition with drugs, alcohol and acting out.

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Men, SeniorsPeggy Peattie
Matthew

Matthew thrived in the U.S. Army. He was a leader in everything he did. The regimen and order, the camaraderie and teamwork, all suited him and gave him the confidence and respect he never had growing up in the projects in Minneapolis. Given to the state at age 13, he was moved between boys’ homes and foster care until the age of 20. Working the hustle, stealing and selling drugs, he ended up in the penitentiary, which is where the military found him and recruited him. Matthew feels that was the best thing that happened to him. But he allowed himself to get cocky, didn’t realize he was an alcoholic and that the freedom to work hard and play hard was his downfall. Going AWOL on alcohol and cocaine, he was too embarrassed to return, knowing his colleagues would be disappointed in him. He’s spent the rest of his life regretting it, trying to find that same environment of mutual respect, of purpose, of order. Now drug and alcohol free, he’s also trying to mend relationships and find a new sense of purpose. He’d like to figure out a concrete way to help get fellow homeless veterans off the street.

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Veterans, MenPeggy Peattie
Sean Patrick Reilly

Sean Patrick Reilly grew up in coal country in the hills of Appalachia where his immigrant grandfather landed, fleeing the potato famine in Ireland. He and his friends would party in the hills where residual fires smoldered near the mines. As soon as he finished high school he fled the overbearing nature of his parents, moving to San Diego, doing odd jobs and ultimately joining the Navy where he hoped to learn to be a welder. That changed however when he went AWOL one too many times, and he found himself doing odd jobs again. Sean ended up a carney with a traveling circus, running the machine gun game for 12 years. Tiring of the travel and long days, bouncing between promises and disappointments, he ended up homeless in San Diego again, drinking a little too much. Camped outside San Diego High School, he and several hundred fellow homeless veterans hope to find services like clothing, clearing up outstanding tickets and getting on a list for housing.

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Veterans, MenPeggy Peattie
Uriah Pryce

Uriah Pryce, 73, came to the U.S. in the 1970s to work as a commercial fisherman, following the industry from Florida to Alaska and places in between. He worked hard in the seasonal rotation and often was denied his full pay because he was discriminated against and had no legal recourse. He was afraid to lose his job. Pryce eventually had health problems that sidelined him. He had to get a pacemaker. Continued efforts to get a check from social security fo decades of work have been stymied, despite recruiting lawyers, because he doesn’t have his naturalization paperwork. Rather than try to move in with one of his children (one in Kansas, one in Alaska and two in Jamaica), he is resigned to spending his days around Balboa Park, sleeping in a parking lot downtown. Fellow homeless individuals help him out with money when they have extra. “As long as I get food, a place to sleep, I don’t need anything else,” he said.

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Jack

Jack, 51, grew up in the foster care system in Indiana. Though he went through some 30 homes and institutions, he has great praise for the foster mother that taught him a sense of morality, treating people with respect. He couldn’t say the same for his foster father, however, an evangelical preacher who had a penchant for “other women.” Jack is proud to be working picking up trash, earning some money even though it’s not a glamorous kind of job, rather than just collecting some sort of federal assistance check. He feels the homeless get a bad rap. He’d like to sit down with the mayor and other “head honchos” in San Diego and school them. “There’s important people down here,” he said. Some might have just lost their job or had a family tragedy that drove them into a deep depression. When he gets on his feet, he wants to do outreach to help other homeless individuals get work and housing.

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MenPeggy Peattie